In case you didn't know, we had a very important birthday at our house a couple of weeks ago. I love birthdays. I always want our kids to feel celebrated on their birthday. I don't think birthdays have to necessarily be all about huge presents or spending tons of money. In fact, I almost want them to be the opposite of that. I want to look for ways to just make fun memories. That's it. Fun. Special. Happy. Joyous.
Last year, Shawn and I took the day off for Sam's birthday and just had a
fun day with him. We decided that was a tradition we want to try to keep. It may not always be something we're able to do, but we're going to make an effort to just set aside a day to celebrate the birth of our children in a fun way. What that looks like might change from year to year, but our main goal is to just do something out of the ordinary.
This year, Shawn decided to kick off Sam's birthday week by dragging the mattress from our guest room into the living room and having a camp out. Let me just tell you--Daddy comes up with the. best. ideas. I HIGHLY recommend this to anyone who is looking for a way to make their kid's day. The minute Sam saw the mattress in the floor, his eyes lit up and he immediately flopped himself face-first onto it. (And then proceeded to repeat that procedure about 4,793 times.) As usual, his brown, furry sidekick was right there in the middle of the action.
Of course, all of that excitement can generate an overall feeling of happiness and love.
We spent part of the next day just lounging around and enjoying our new setup. Nothing too fancy--just a couple of folks kicked back, chillin', watching some cartoons.
For Sam's actual birthday, we decided this year we'd do a movie. Again, this was Shawn's idea. He said he remembers going to the movies to be a special treat when he was a kid, and he always really enjoyed going. While I agreed, I was a little apprehensive about taking a 2 year old to the theatre. But after some discussion we decided that's what matinees are for, so we loaded Sam up and picked out the movie we wanted to see: Dr. Seuss' The Lorax.
We posed for a couple of pictures. (And to Shawn's credit he didn't even roll his eyes.)
Then we found our seats. Sam LOVED the cool chairs. We had one minor mishap that involved standing up in the chair and it folding up, which then resulted in getting his foot stuck in it. But other than that the movie was a total success!!! Sam loved everything about it. He consumed more popcorn than I thought possible. He laughed, clapped and danced during the songs. He cheered when the good guys won. Honestly, I just don't have the words to describe how much fun it was for all three of us.
But eventually, the junk food high wears off, and when it does little guys crash HARD.
The next weekend, we had Sam's party. Last year, we had his
party at home. Even though we tried to keep it small and stress-free, I still managed to obsess about whether the house was clean enough, getting the cake and cupcakes decorated just right, having room to put everyone, etc, etc, etc.
I also may have threatened Shawn's life at one point because he sampled a cupcake the night before and didn't ask my permission. Good times...
Anyhoo, this year we decided to have Sam's party at a location away from home. We thought about the park since he always has such a great time there, but in the end we decided that April weather is just too unreliable for that. So we found a bounce house that would rent the entire place to us (because our
previous bounce house experience with the rest of the world was such a disaster), and I started looking for Pooh-themed party ideas on Pinterest. Then we found out that the bounce house we were looking at would only allow us to have cake and pizza. And I was so sad because I had pinned all of these cute Pooh-themed food ideas. And then I mentioned my concerns to Shawn and he was like, "Well don't you just want to order a pizza?" and I
shouted lovingly told him, "No! I don't want to just order pizza! I want to have my cute Pooh-themed food!"
Boy, planning a birthday party really brings out the best in me, doesn't it?
In the end, we found
another bounce house that would allow us to bring in our own food and drinks, and we were back on track. So here are a few pictures from our party. I made the food signs on our computer & printed them on photo paper. I used a font that I downloaded from the internet so the words would have the backwards letters and everything like you always see on the Pooh cartoons. (Did you even know you could download new fonts? I didn't. And it was FREE!!! Ain't modern technology grand?) My very creative friend Amanda fashioned some little easels for them out of some left over cardboard, and they were just perfect.
We had fruit and vegetables from Rabbit's garden.
I did relent this year and get a store-bought cake. I wasn't going to be able to take the day off before the party, and I was afraid I would run out of time on the cake. I have to say, the people at Kroger were very nice and easy to work with. She let me go on and on about how I wanted the cake to look. Even though we couldn't do exactly what I wanted (copyright issues with Disney), I think it still turned out really cute.
I just LOVE how these turned out. Pretzel rods turned Tigger Tails. (For anyone wanting to know--you CANNOT dye melted white chocolate with food coloring. Apparently I should have paid more attention in basic chemistry when they were talking about oil based substances not mixing well with water based substances. If you need to use colored dipping candy, save yourself the trouble and go directly to Michael's and buy the already-dyed stuff. Trust me.)
Piglets in a blanket.
This is the conversation we had the night before the party:
Me (after making one batch of Stuff and Fluff Salad): Look at this bowl and think about how many people we're having at the party. Do you think I should make a double batch?
Shawn: What is that?
Me: It's that pink salad that you like. It has pineapple, maraschino cherries, Cool Whip. But tomorrow it's going to be Stuff and Fluff Salad.
Shawn: I don't remember you making that. Can I taste it?
He tastes it.
Shawn: Yes. We'll definitely be needing a double batch of that.
This one was a bit of a flop. I wanted to have blue punch, so I came up with a punch recipe that would work. (A container of blue Hawaiian Punch, a container of white cranberry juice, and a 2 liter of lemon-lime soda.) Then I thought if we floated vanilla ice cream on top it might look like a rain cloud. So it could be Eeyore's Rain Cloud Punch--you know--since Eeyore always has that rain cloud over his head. I was so proud of my brilliance. So on the day of the party, Shawn's mom and I went ahead of everyone else to run in Kroger and pick up last minute items and decorate. I decided a divide and conquer approach was in order. So when we got in Kroger I asked her to grab ice cream while I picked up the cake. "What flavor?" she asked. On the spur of the moment, I said, "Shawn likes Neapolitan...get that!" Only when I got ready to mix up the punch I realized that Neapolitan ice cream doesn't so much look like a rain cloud. Oh well.

Here's another funny story about the punch: When we were cleaning up the party room, I drained what was left of the punch back into one of the original juice containers, but I had nothing to do with the ice cream. One of the bounce house workers suggested that I flush it down the toilet. Great! Except when I went into the restroom the toilet was still running from where someone else had just flushed it. Not wanting to risk causing the toilet to overflow, I dumped the ice cream in and made a mental note to go back and flush it in just a minute after the tank had filled back up. Only I forgot. Do you know what Neapolitan ice cream looks like when it's in a toilet? I'm guessing whoever saw it wasn't thinking it was ice cream...
I made this sign for the gift table. Again...nothing fancy. Just a Word document printed on paper, trimmed to size and framed. I brought one of our backup Poohs to hold it.
I found these little pots that I thought looked like honey pots on the dollar rack at Target. You cannot imagine the funny looks I was getting as I stood there doing my happy dance in the store. I had intended to put crayons in them and let the kids color Pooh pages, but the Pooh coloring pages didn't quite make it to the party, so I just bought a little bouquet of flowers to divide up and use.
I was also really proud of this idea. I made little favor bags for the kids, but since this was a mostly family party, I wanted a little something to give to the adults too. So I bought a couple of boxes of honey buns (honey...Pooh...get it?) and made little tags for them.
This is totally my child: ignores all of the toys he got and goes straight for the books. As soon as he opened the gift with books he was done. As in, he was pushing the other presents away not wanting to open them so he could sit and look at his books. Or as Sam likes to say, "Book-sssssss."
Cousins are such a nice thing to have around.
Sam loves his Nana--thinks she hung the moon.
Tigger made a surprise appearance at the party. (Seriously--we didn't know he was coming!) This was as close as Sam would get to him. I think we finally did coerce him into giving him a high five before he left.
We tried to convince my grandmother to get in the inflatables, but she decided she'd just settle for a game of air hockey.
But that didn't stop Sam and Daddy from having fun in them!
FYI--for all of you moms out there: Destination birthday parties are THE BEST!!! If you are in the Lexington area, we highly recommend the
bounce house that we used. They were so nice to work with. They pretty much let us do whatever we wanted, we only had to get our stuff out of the party room and they cleaned up the rest, and the kids had a great time. Seriously, we might not ever have another birthday party at our house ever again.